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She Says It's My Baby, But I Don't Believe Her

7 Comments » March 20, 2006

My relationship with my Ex started when I was 15 and ended abruptly four months later. She and I started off good, spending almost every day with each other and on the phone every night. She claimed I was her first, but her friends were telling me different. They also claimed I wasn't the only dude she was seeing. I stopped claiming her until I finally dumped her on Dec. 23.

I had to go through her crying and the "Why did you hurt me like this." She even went as far as to call my mother and grandmother and tell them I just broke up with her for no reason. I didn't tell them all the stories I heard or the day she was caught at the movies. I just told them that it wasn't working out, trying to help her save face and not expose her for the liar and cheater she truly was.

Now somehow the love I had for her survived and the next summer she was back and spending the night with me even though she had a boyfriend. She hit me with the “We belong together…” and told me how much she missed me an still loved and wanted to get back with me.

I told her we can talk about what we were going to do, and the next morning she told me she would call. I didn't hear from her again that year. Eight months later I get a phone call from her. She says she's pregnant an I assume its mine. I start to think of a game plan on how I will prepare to take care of my child but she stops me and says it’s not mine.

Months go by and I am away handling business when I hear from my family that she has been appearing at the house showing off the baby. Everyone swears it’s a spitting image of me, but she tell this whole story of how her boyfriend had a paternity test and it’s his.

About 6 months later she starts coming back around again but now she claims it is mine! She tells this whole other story about how the results came back and the baby wasn't his. But 6 months ago the results said it was.

Everyone is confused but some of my family except the lie and welcome my new son, while others question the excuse and tell me not to claim it until I have a paternity test. Then she started calling me saying that she wants to get back together and take care of our son. I tell her okay, and give her instructions to meet me on a certain day so I can see my son and talk to her.

She never shows or even calls for weeks. When she finally does I do the same thing and she does also. This goes on for about 5 months and I just give up trying to be a father.

That is when the angry phone calls come. She calls me with the baby crying and taunts me saying, "Cry to your daddy" and then hangs up. I'm thinking, okay why is she doing this? I tried to be there for her. My whole family tried and she refused to let us get involved, but when we stop trying she gets all aggressive towards me and all I get is attitude and bitterness like I owe her something.

I got in touch with someone who went to her high school and found out some truths - she didn't graduate from high school, and she also had 4 different paternity tests which were all negative. Maybe that is why when I told her I wanted a paternity test she yelled at me just for the suggestion.

To this day she doesn't know I know this. I also heard that she was saying things about me like I am a dead beat dad and don't help her out. But when I tell everyone my side of the story they look at her in a different light. So now I am trying to finish college and get my degree and start my job so I can get custody of my son before his life is ruined due to no father figure and a lesbian unfit teenage mother.

- M Jones

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