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I Was Fine With Being The Other, Until He Said He Loves Her

4 Comments » March 31, 2006

I've been seeing a man for the last 9 months but I've known him for many years. I knew from the beginning that he was already seeing someone and living with them. When we were friends, I never expected anything serious to happen between us. However, months later I find myself “dangerously in love” with him and later on, broken-hearted.

See, I just found out yesterday that he moved out of the house he was sharing with his girlfriend- but he moved two weeks ago! He said he didn't tell me at first because he didn't want me to think that this meant he did it for me, or that we'd be exclusive now.

For the last few months he's continuously told me that he loves me and is in love with me and needs me in his life. I've tried leaving him so many times only to find it impossible.

Then last night as he's telling me about him moving he explains that since he's left her he's had a "revelation" - he still loves her. I have asked him time after time if he did but he always told me blatantly that he didn't love her anymore.

I feel so sick, like I have wasted almost a year of my life on someone I thought was honest with me. Why did he wait until now after he's out of the house to tell me that he loves her? Why not months ago before I got attached? I feel like a fool, and ashamed that I let things get so far.

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Comments

Fist off your silly for messing with a guy who was living with a woman....what did you think he was going to tell you? Dont ever let a man call the shots...you were on his time and now he hit you with a bomb like that...you should have not messed with the dog in the first place...why would you want to be with somebody that's cheating on their girlfriend dont you know he will do the same to you... he's not worth your time or the tears your sheading over him...i say move on with your life i know it's going to be hard but dont you want to be happy? and man will only do what you let him and by messing with him knowing that he had a girlfriend you let him hurt you....dont ever let a man have that much power over your heart....love is not always good as you have seen...dont answer any of his calls and dont let him come see you to talk...and he might just say he said that to make you mad...it's a lie take it from me he loves the girl....if he had the balls to tell you something like that after a year what else is there....he might be on the down low that's how young girl's get AIDS messing with these no good men....i dont know about you and who you sleep with but what if you was a hoe then BOOM he got it and so does she...so protect your self and look out for self dont be used....I'll holla

Posted by Deana Smith April 3, 2006 02:00 AM

he probably didnt tell you earlier becuz he probably thought he didnt love her either, but upon moving out he found out he did.. its best for you to move on since ur hurt already and any further actions may just make thigns worse off for you.

Posted by dmac April 3, 2006 02:10 AM

Take it as a lesson learned.You made a mistake and its time to learn from it and move on. Don't take any calls from him and under no circumstances call him. Its easier said than done but you truly need to focus on self and no one else, especially him.

Posted by bkays finest April 3, 2006 08:20 AM

Love can get you really twisted...
IF YOU ALLOW IT TO!

There is no need for you 2 feel ashamed because BAD things happen 2 GOOD people everyday.

The HURT you are feeling is a direct result of your FOOLISHNESS for dealing with some1 YOU KNEW had some1 else.


As cliche as it may be,
it appears that more often times than not:

THE SAME WAY YOU GET A MAN IS HOW YOU LOSE HIM!

In this case however, you never really had him, he had you: Had you playing the fool, had you believing his lies, had you waiting for what never was going 2 be, etc.

It is past time 4 you 2 take this experience in stride and MOVE ON! The next time, DON'T settle for any1 or anything LESS THAN THE ABSOLUTE BEST you are entitled to...and you are so entitled...

Nurture your spirit,
get your mind right,
and work on YOU 2 explore the REAL ISSUES on why you would have settled for this mess in the 1st place.

Check out Juanita Bynum's DVD "No More Sheets"...


keep praying...
the right man will come and he won't be in a relationship with some1 else.

Posted by Dana in Jersey April 3, 2006 09:58 AM

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