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I Loved Her, But She Aborted My Baby

11 Comments » March 21, 2006

unforgivibleStory10.jpgI was dating this girl in high school. We would hardly ever see each other outside of school or talk on the phone because her dad always hung up on me or made her get off the phone (he later tried to rape her and didn't want her talking to any other boys). That Summer after I graduated, I had to go to South Carolina and finish my military training. We saw each other before I left and I asked her to write me while I was there.

I never got one letter from her. I called, but never was able to reach her. I thought that she had broken it off without telling me. I was mad and hurt and used that anger as motivation during my training.

I came home and she had heard from one of my boys that I was coming home so she started calling the house. I'm at my cousin’s house a few days later and she just shows up and gives me a kiss. I forgave her, like a fool. Classes were starting soon at school so I only had about 3 days to kick it. She begged me to be faithful and not to leave her while I was gone. She cried and said she loved me so I promised that I wouldn't.

Everyone knows how much temptation there is in college and it was hard, but I did keep my promise. I came home from school for the Summer in time for her graduation. And a few days before her graduation, she broke up with me.

How about that bullshit? I'm faithful to your ass for a year and overlook your bullshit and you break up with me? I was like fuck it, and moved on. I bounced back and just started fucking around with random chicks just trying to fuck, but no relationships. Then she found out that one of her friends was trying to get at me and she wanted me back. So I took her back - mistake number 2.

That next school year, I came home to see her and we had unprotected sex and she called and told me she might be pregnant. I was shocked. We were already in different states, but a baby would just complicate things even more. I called her all the time to check on her and she getting pissed at me. A few weeks later, she called and said she wasn't pregnant and that she had "taken care of things."

After that things were even worse. I using up all my money on calling cards calling her and shit and she can't even make time for a nigga when he at home. I saw her one time when I came home for the Summer and she acted like she didn't want to be around me, so I just gave up on the whole thing.

I didn't hear from her for weeks, and in typical fashion when she found at somebody else was trying to get at me, she calls and wants me back. Not this time.

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Comments

You are a dumb nigga, period.

It was never confirmed if she was pregnant and you admitted it would have been complicated with the two of you living in other states and what not - she don't want you...get over it.

Posted by Regina March 21, 2006 01:51 PM

Man, i know exactly how you feel. I was with my ex for 4 years & engaged & she aborted our baby too. We broke up numerous times but only wanted me back after she found out I was talking to someone else. She's still trying to this day.

Posted by Lance March 21, 2006 02:22 PM

Atleast you didnt make the mistake the 3rd time.

Posted by Squarez March 21, 2006 03:34 PM

I sympathize with you and for her. I'm a black women loking for someone who is almost on your level and this foolish female trust to take your kindness for weakness. I can honestly say that it was good for her because she was so not worthy of the goodness that lies within you. I'm so jealous of her to for having someone like yourself in her present. Why not me!

Posted by Dblaque1 March 21, 2006 05:26 PM

man taking her back the second time was dumb. but love will make you do dumb thangs so i cant blame you

Posted by tizzle fizz March 21, 2006 07:24 PM

I started getting pissed just reading this. I hope u never go back to her.

Posted by The TN Man March 21, 2006 08:38 PM

Her not having the baby (assuming she really was pregnant) may have been a blessing in disguise. This girl obviously has some issues and this may have been a sign to cut all ties to her completely. So basically, you've pretty much dodged a bullet...just don't stare down the barrel again and you'll be good.

Posted by Joe Schmoe March 21, 2006 09:53 PM

You've got to break the cycle dude! It looks like she's got you on a leash and any time you try to stray, she drags ur ass straight back to her. You aint a dog, your a person with feelings also and you need to get on with your own life...she's just being selfish, as a rapper says..'You gotta show the bitch whose Boase!' (I dont know which rapper exactly, it may have been snoop'...any hoo, gluck! (good luck)- from a British Girl X

Posted by sofistafunk March 22, 2006 05:19 PM

If she holla at you again, you should get back with her. I think you two belong together. Dumb people should always be with dumb people.

Dumb ass!

Posted by Renee March 22, 2006 06:36 PM

Why is everyone vilifying the girl? From her point of view, she's mad young (high school) has an on-again off-again long distance boyfriend, and ends up pregnant. Her aloof behavior was probably just insecurity from you going away and not sure if you'd be faithful or still want to be with her. She was probably just scared and confused and overwhelmed and felt very alone and that's why she did the abortion. "Love" goes both ways and also compassion.

Posted by makledes March 22, 2006 08:17 PM

Love will make you believe even when your brain is telling you differently just be thankful that you can get away from her madness and childness behavior she is using the way you feel for her to toy with your emotions don't be foolish and take her back a 3rd time it will only be a waste of your time and leave you with an open wound that was trying to heal from the last two times,and if you do happen to take her back again I guarantee you that she will get pregnant and then you will have to deal with her crazy ass for more than any prson should have too so please do yourself and your seed a favor and stay away from her.

Posted by ellie March 22, 2006 10:45 PM

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